Regardless of whether spouses can settle or they are forced to litigate, the independent nature of custody, support and property issues in North Carolina can drag out the ultimate resolution of all issues arising from separation. For example, custody can and might be resolved in North Carolina в by private agreement or in court в long before any other topics have been dealt with; or, property might be divided during the separation period long before there are any agreements with respect to custody or support.
You will certainly want to consider during the negotiation process whether it makes sense to try to deal with all issues tn dating, rather than one at a time as North Carolina law allows. In terms of peace of mind, closure and expense, it usually makes the most sense to settle everything at once and as expeditiously as feasible under your individual circumstances. It is, of course, also often tactically advantageous to settle as many issues as possible all at once.
Following just one piece of advice about negotiating may carry you to a satisfactory resolution. That advice is to focus most of your attention on the single issue that is most important to you rather than allowing yourself to get sidetracked on issues that have only passing or minor emotional significance and then to be prepared to make concessions on the matter that counts most to your spouse. If, on the other hand, you have figured out what your spouse most wants, and you can find a way to get to that point, that will provide you some leverage in the negotiations in getting what you most want.
This room originally had part of a large oriel window running through it down to the ground floor. Oriel windows are generally associated with stair wells, but there is no evidence of this with respect to the timber linings. The roof framing is generally Oregon pine framed up in a traditional manner with rafters, under purlins, braces and ridge poles.
Some of the original roof framing is still present under the new roof line. The extension over bedrooms two and three have a simple truss form as opposed to the traditional framing used for the main part of the roof. The dining room chimney clearly shows signs of where the original roof line was, as the original roof flashings are present, and the bricks have been painted above tn dating old roof line.
This chimney has either been damaged by an earthquake or extended to suit the changed roof, as evidenced by the change in plastering at the top of the chimney. The Stable is a relatively large utilitarian building which complements the main house and was constructed c at the same time as the house. It is of balloon construction with the studs running full height and the loft floor constructed between. The stable is approached from the south via a driveway the wraps around the back of the house.
He was a true gentleman and held his colleagues in high regard, even when they disagreed with some of his more controversial conclusions. Our deepest condolences to his family, friends and colleagues. Here is a link to his Official Obituary. Rest in peace my friend. I visited Alan's home in Durham on a number of occasions where we discussed and studied his Shroud related research in his impressive basement studio filled with Shroud materials.